You need to drill a couple holes in the return pipe just below the water level. Either that, or install a check valve (or both).
It's hard to do now that your setup is running, but if you can take any pipe apart to temporarily break the siphon, do that and then drill 2 or 3 small (1/16" or so, maybe a little larger) holes in the pipe so that the holes are jsut below the surface of the water. When power goes out, the water will backsiphon until the water surface is level with the holes. It will break the siphon.
Make sure you keep the holes clean and free of any debris. If they become clogged, you lose the anti-siphon. When I used this method, I cleaned them with a pipe cleaner about every 3 or 4 days...