On at least two occasions here on the board, I have asked how I have wronged you, which have received no reply. Rather than engage in a public scene, I've either ignored, or been ignored. No I have not called you - perhaps that is my fault. STill, I'm not the one who inititiated hostility between us.
Again, I'll ask you, how have I wronged you? In the past we had a good relationship, you supported us, we supported you and life was good. Suddenly things changed and I am still at a loss as to why. We can clear the air now if you wish, (I'm asking yet again, and again in this thread) or we can leave it as it is. I have no anger or ill will, I'm just confused and disappointed and I'd like to move on. As I stated before, the choice is yours.
As to the issue of "time off", I was witness to your abrupt departure from this board when William voiced his opinion about his post being moved, on about May 21. I left well enough alone and did what needed to be done as far as bank deposits etc., and reporting at meetings until July when I finally asked Andy what was up. He informed me that you had "tried to resign" (did I get the verbage right, Andy?) but he had not accepted. That night Andy and I and others present discussed this, and all those present agreed that I should proceed and order checks and move forward with treasurer stuff, but Andy was going to ask you to make it public. I told Andy I would wait until that was done because I did not want to infringe on anybody. 2 or 3 days later, I contacted Andy to ask what the status was, and he said that you were back on, so I did not do anything further. I did not ask questions, or make accusations and nobody had anything else to say. I figured all was right again with the world, but apparently not.
Perhaps it's just the mix of personalities here, but it seems that nothing can be accomplished without a debate or bad feelings - whether I'm involved with it or not - so it's not "just me". IMO it's more about duelling egos than anything else. I've resolved to sit back and just do what I said I would do for the club and that's just what I'm doing, when my time permits. I've worked with many boards of directors over the years, in service clubs, MASNA, Cub Scouts and I've never seen anything like this.
Jenn