i got the word last night. i am a perfect tissue match to donate a kidney to my mother-in-law. both of her kidneys failed over 6 years ago. she's been going to dialisis 4 x a week since. surgery won't happen for about another 3 months. now i have to ask for all of your help. my new 180 gal is up and running and doing great ( sorry no build thread yet but its comming, i ducumented the progress on a daily basis) my wife is clueless about anything with this tank. i'll be in the hospital for about 4 days and then for about a week i won't be able to do much. if anything happens during that time, she will log on to TRT and ask for help. please be patient and try to explain things as clearly and simple as posible. i think i'm more worried about my tank than i am about the surgery. thanks in advance. much peace!!!!