Blue Tip Sebae anemone not well? Pictures!!

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I don't know if I did this right . I don't know why it isnt an easier process to post a pic. Im currently using a smartphone (even on my pc at home i have a problem) i can upload pics to my gallary by choosing a file (actually tapping the pic) right from the phone. But when i try to choose a file while trying ro post it guves me a hard time (not unlike this keyboard) bery frustratung. Lol
Anyways to the point, if you cant view the pic youll have to go to my gallary (just spent my lunch break trting to do this and got no where) My sebae looked similar to that when i got it and was told it was suppose to look like that. Unless there are different color variations it is bleached out a bit. It took mine a good 3-4 months to really color up. Dont feed it at the moment. Let it settle down and color up a bit. I jad mine under t5s and it did quite well. Its now under leds ans is about 12" across.

I've only had a single condy, so I really don't know much, but what I understood and what I experienced was that an open mouth meant it was ready for food. I thought I had read how long it has been in your tank, but I couldn't find it when I looked back. Some critters can take a couple weeks after initial acclimation to truly and fully acclimate to your tank's conditions (water, flow, light). If's she's staying put, I don't think I'd worry too much. If it's been a few days, I'd almost try a small piece of food and see if the mouth closes up after that. Mine preferred minced raw shrimp and occasionally pureed squid, but it ate mysis, brine, clam, and even occasionally a blood worm. Silversides and krill were commonly posted favorites, although I never tried either.

Anemone are waste intensive, so make sure what you feed them is finely chopped and feed it sparingly until you determine how much it will eat and what it's schedule is likely to be. I've seen everything from every other day to once every couple of weeks. My condy settled into a pattern of about three times in two weeks very quickly, but was a bit hungrier the first few weeks until it recovered from the pet shop and its zooathellae balanced out with my lighting.

When you say the clown is going belly up, is it also kind of twitching a bit. This is actually normal behavior. It is a sign that one is becoming submissive. I always thought it was the male that did this. But I've had that clown in the pick a few years and out of nowhere a while back she laid eggs on a rock (no males in with her) so I figured why not get her a mate. So I picked up a tiny (well compared to her) male and within hours she not he was turning belly up and twitching. Within a week they she laid eggs again. I felt bad for her being alone but now they won't stop laying eggs. They have never survived but they just keep trying. I don't want babies. Had the big V done years ago to avoid it and now I'm afraid I'll have a hundred little babies to care for. Ahhh to much work. By the way I work in a school so I get plenty of time around kids. Lol