Although going up to the 12g JBJ you get the dual lighting you also get the footprint of the O. biocube 14gallon

so that is out.
Both of you hit on what I was thinking about more room and more stability. Both come with 18w but the 8 Gallon Includes: 1-18 Watt 10k and 1-18 Watt Actinic. 4.5 Watts per Gallon compared to 3 watts. I am used to running 7.71 watts of lighting on my display tank :P
She is already aware of the weekly water change which I can just repare her a gallon jug off of mine when i prepare my WC water.
This is really looking like a one sided battle here the more research i do.