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water always want to go downhill, use this, do not fight it. one pump is all you will need. trying to match pumps is impossible.
do you want to build a sump out of acrylic or out of someother material. using overflows is not necessarily a good idea. it is better to just have a bulkhead at the top of the refugium so that water can fall out of the refugium and into either the display or into a sump. you would use a small pump to put the water into the refugium and then the water would fall back out through the bulkhead. if you look at
mine you will see that the refugium is higher than the display so that gravity will feed the tank from the refugium.
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