Ed, the round foam in the center is extra piece, tho I pushed mine back in about half way, so it sticks out the top, helps with noise a bit

The water level is dependant on how high or low you set the inner box.
The U tube goes into the smaller chamber and water fills that, then over the wall and down the drain
The slip fitting with male threads goesinside the box, use an O ring on it, the the female part with hose barb? goes on from underneath, using O ring, any hose that fits the fitting is OK $18 for 6' is too much I think.
Then once its all in placefill the outer box and put in the Utube. Use a length os airline tubing shoved up the U tube to suck the air out and start siphon
The trick is to max flow thru the tube without overriding the capacity, if the pump goes off the box cant drain below the slots in the box.
Valve goes on the output side of the pump, and a check valve will be redundant on this setup, have fun
