Just wait for Tom's new book. It should be coming out in the Spring. Right Tom?????

Seriously, your best sourse for up to date information will probably be right here. There are several good books out, like the 3 book set by Sprung and Delbeek. The problem is that the technology, and our understanding, in this hobby is improving so rapidly that books and articles become outdated very fast.
As far as anemones go, I think you should hold off for a while. Give your tank about a year to mature. Tanks go through growing pains just like teenagers and puberty. Then you can start with one of the more hardy species like BTA. This will also give you time to get a feel for how all this stuff works. Most anemones are among the most demanding critters we keep. There are many other very cool critters you can start with that are much easier to care for.
HTH.
