
OK that is close to what I was picturing. Is the noise that is bothering you coming from the gurgling of the pipes or from the sound of water rushing over the weir?
But what I was going to suggest is to just make a durso type drain with it half in and half out of the tank. To see if it is going to work you can do it without major cost right now.
* Turn the 90 around in the weir
* Drill a hole in the top of the 90 on the outside of the tank.
* Insert a 1/4" nipple from a drip line in the drilled hole (or anything that will work) Make sure it is pretty snug
* insert about 4" of
air line tubing or drip line over the nipple
* Add a drip line
ball valve on it
Then play with the drip line ball valve and see if you can get it nearly silent by adjusting it.
If this works you can glue the nipple in place and run it or build a more professional durso. I actually have my 40 gallon fuge plumed this way in my wetroom.
If that doesn't make sense let me know!