I live in Ohio as well. Ohio water is hard because of all the limestone we are sitting on.
I went to HomeDepot and bought a WaterBoss Water Softner unit.
http://waterboss.com/products/model900.cfm
I believe the unit was around $300 and I had a brother-in-law install it.
I also put a WholeHouse filter. The WholeHouse filter filters down to 5microns if you get the highest-end filter cartridge.
http://www.homedepot.com/prel80/HDUS....jsp?pn=162839
I !LOVE! my setup.
If you have around $400-$500 you'll have great water for your tank, great water for you to drink and great water that wont clog up your dishwasher and washing machine.