Another possibility is....can you describe the plumbing coming down/off that bulkhead?
I had a similar problem, and I found out that my plumbing was set up such that it was pulling on the bulkhead just a little....tilting it every so slightly.
Hard to explain.
But my plumbing when straight down about a foot from the bulkhead, then sideways about 3 feet, then down into the sump. This sideways plumbing would fill with water, as it should. This would give it a little weight. This would make it pull down.
Okay...not describing this right. Where's MS Paint? hehehe
okay...here ya' go.
Not sure if this applies or not. But if it does, take some wire/string and wrap it around the horizontal pipe. Then wrap the wire/string around a nail holding that part of the plumbing up and in a steady spot.
Probably barking up the wrong tree here, but just in case....hehehe