Sparky,
Depending on which model of Iwaki. I have the 40RLT and it's the fan noise that drives me crazy. The vibration can be dampen with pads or
filter pad, but the fan noise is what bothers me. It's not loud, just a constant hum.
Not sure how much you are planning on spending, but
Premium Aquatics and
Marine Depot has the CS Velocity T4 on sale for $160. The pump is small and light weight; 4 lbs for the T4 and others I think. I have it running on my AquaC EV-200. At 0 ft., it'll put out 1200 gph. But you can also turn it back or just add more output to the tank.
After running around town today, I decided to put my Iwaki 40 back on line for the new tank. But I told my wife that if it bothers her, I'll switch it out for a CS Velocity T4. For an external pump, I don't think I'll go with other pumps.
My other favorite is the
RIO pump. Had 6 running for over 6 years without any problems. I know most people don't like them, but I have never had any problems. I have the 2100 pumps.