no he isn't rubbing himself on rocks - but i didn't know that was a sign of ich. thanks, i will keep an eye out for that in the future.
as crazy as this may sound, the only thing i can think is maybe he is flipping out because his tank-mate died. when i rearranged my LR for the addition of a
protein skimmer, i stirred up the tank a lot, and for some unknown reason my dwarf butterfly died. i checked my ammonia, nitrite, nitrate, temp, pH, calcium and all looked good, so I don't know why he died - i checked him over very closely post-mortum and i couldn't find anything wrong (except that he was dead).
my damsel seems to take more interest in his reflection now, and darts around randomly, like he is very nervous... its sad.