Maroon clowns can be difficult to pair anyway because of their aggressive tendencies, even if the smaller one is a male it might take some some pretty scrappy battles before dominance is deferred to the larger fish. And if you have two females they will definitely be serious fighting.
One thing to keep in mind is that size in clownfish is not necessarily a measure of age, but of sex, as you probably know. Somewhere in
Joyce Wilkerson's book she mentions that large growth spurts sometimes don't occur until sex is chosen or a pair bond is formed. From that I would gather there is a good chance any small clown can still be a male.
If you are prepared to rescue one when it needs it, then just put them together and let them hash out their relationship. With luck the smaller one will give in as soon as it realizes it's peril.
jmo, chris