I wish I was a fly on the wall listening to the conversation with Jen... but in my mind it went something like this
"you bought a light...for what? for where? but you said..."
Jason " Yeah, but now I can have the LPS in one place and grow it out and it will be awsome...and then with the Calcium Reactor..."
jen..."calcium re-what ter??? bbubb bubbb bbuut you said after the light, I mean skimmer...I mean blastos...that we were ...we were done?!!"
Jason: " Well what I meant was that we were done with that tank and can start on the new one!"
" a new one?
" yeah, and this one will be YOURS!!! You can put anything in it that you want to...like..."
Disclaimer: I know who actually wears the pants...in ANY marriage

or thinks she wears the pants at least

and know Jen...I hope she finds the humor in this, or never sees it at all