Thanks Johnny and Jeff, The fish look better today, no more filmy white on the fins, although the pigeonblood is still being quite aggressive to the diamond. (btw, the diamond is almost the same size as the pigeonblood, just not as beefy) The smaller turquois doesn't get beat on as much.
Do you think they will ease up on one another, perhaps with the addition of more structure/hiding places in the tank? What do you think the reality of adding one more discus to tank would be?-possible?/forget it? It was my understanding from reading the various books I have on cichlids and discus articals in mags that we could keep up to 4 discus in this size tank. Is this info totally offbase?
I got a reply to this same question on RC that suggested I return the fish, read alot, and forget them until I was ready to make a real committment to them.

Well, I admit (here) that that suggestion just rankled whether it is right or not!

Personally, I believe I and sister Mel have made a committment to these fish already, I have read much on these guys already and am still looking for more info.
Ok, I will step down off the soapbox- I've asked enough ?s for the moment.
